Mom of Special Needs Child Pens Heart-Wrenching Letter to Future Teacher
Lifestyle| | By Brian Delpozo
There are perhaps few harder moments in the life of a parent than sending their child to school for the first time. The sadness at knowing their baby is growing up combined with the fear of sending them into the world for the first time can be overwhelming, especially for those with children of special needs. Sydnie Bill is one such parent, a mother to a 3-year-old daughter with Down syndrome. Bill also happened to be a teacher herself, and on the eve of sending her daughter to school for the first time, she posted an open impassioned letter to the girl’s future teacher on The Mighty.
Bill’s words carry extra weight as she’s both a mother and a teacher herself, and have seemingly struck a chord with many who’ve read them. As of press time, her post on The Mighty has been shared over 13,000 times and racked up over 12,000 likes on Facebook.“This year my daughter turns 3. She ages out of the comfort and security we’ve come to know with Early Intervention, and enters the world of school. Preschool looms on our horizon, and to me she is still my baby. “Because you are a special needs preschool teacher, I know her delays are not foreign to you. I know you have many strategies in your toolbox to help her continue to grow and learn. Please do not lose patience if I ask why you chose the one you did. I’m not questioning your education; I want to learn how to help her too. “As she struggles to take off her coat or put a shoe on after it’s fallen off, please remember she was unbuckled from her rear-facing car seat this morning. Please remember she has only been walking for six months. And please be patient when her little fingers don’t have the coordination for buttons or zippers yet. “As she cries or hits when she doesn’t want to do something, please remember she doesn’t have words to express herself, and I know she must be so frustrated. Please correct her behavior, and guide her toward expressing herself with words and signs like we do at home. “As she proudly uses her utensils to eat her own lunch, please gently wipe her face, covered in applesauce, as she beams with pride that she’s a big girl. I know it’s an extra step in your day, but she needs that independence. “As she climbs on her little bus in the afternoon please don’t think I don’t yearn to be the one picking up and dropping her off each day. I’m not absent from her school day because I don’t care. You won’t see me because I have my own class of 25 third graders across town. Please don’t judge her home life based on a glimpse of her day. I am entrusting you with a piece of my heart. “As she walks down the hall, wearing a bookbag as big as she is, please do not underestimate her. She is tiny, but she is strong. Don’t allow her size to become her crutch; she will rise to the expectations given to her. And we’re shooting for the moon. “Signed, “A Special Needs Mom”Advertisement
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